In this world, people are often classified into 2 group. One group who always produce result and always successful in anything they do. The other group who only procrastinate and when result are not produced they start blaming everyone except themselves.

So which category are you in? Group 1 who are the producer? or Group 2 who are the procrastinator?

When this question was ask majority or I can say all the people want to be in group 1 but how many actually succeed? It only a handful of them. Have you every ask yourself why are this people succeeding but not me. It is simple this people knew the attitude needed to be a producer.

Now I am going to share with you 3 critical difference between a producer and a procrastinator.

1. A producer is a winner and a procrastinator is a whinner. A producer have a winning mindset and they often think like a winner but for procrastinator they have a stingy thinking which often surround themselves with negative thoughts. Unlike the producer, they surround themselves with winning principle and positive thoughts.
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It been a long time since I last blog. Firstly, It is due to me enlisting into the army which my time become lesser. Secondly, It is partly because of me keep on procrastinating. I would always tell myself that i am too tired so i blog the next day but it seem like the next day will never come.

Do you want to know what motivate me to blog now? It was when i receive my monthly package from success university. I was listening to a CD by Johny Wimbrey which he talk about the different between producer and procrastinator. After listening i finally realized that i had always been procrastinating the things i should do and even blaming that i have no time to blog due too my army or my tiredness.

Procrastinating is happening in everyone life which can happen$ anytime at anywhere. We only will conquer this challenge is when we realized what the very different between those who produce and those who procrastinate. So keep a look out for the next post which i will talk about the different between a producer and a procrastinator.

Cheers
Victor

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Anthony Robbins is one of the world best motivation speaker. Do watch the video below to keep yourself motivated in anything you do.

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Victor

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The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, or actually part of the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing the stone can grant you the gift of gab. Yeah, it seems strange in this day and age, but who are we to question tradition? It’s not like I’m saying that Santa Claus doesn’t exist (OOPS!).

There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it’s your mouth that’s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communication is to know the very person closest to you: yourself.

1. What you know.

Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you’ve learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters’ meeting I go to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn’t mean we can’t learn to keep up and share what we know.

2. Listening.

It’s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.

3. Humility

We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don’t be afraid to ask if you’re saying the right word properly and if they’re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it’ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.

4. Eye Contact

There’s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It’s important that you keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.

5. Kidding around

A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.

6. Be like the rest of them

Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You’ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.

7. Me, Myself, and I

Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can spruce up as well.

8. With a smile

A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it’s a wake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.

9. A Role Model

There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.

10. Preparation
Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.

And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.

Cheers
Victor

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It’s been a while since i last blog. The reason for my disappearance is because i had been enlisted into the Army. Being confine in the army for 2 weeks allow me to in contact with many different people. During my 2 weeks confinement i have a lot of time to think and start ask myself many questions about my life. I often see myself as somewhat contented with my life the way things are, but of course it’s hard to think of anything else when where are real issues to be discussed.

Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.

So we’re all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?

1. What do I really want?

The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.

Find something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.

2. Should I really change?

Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ’self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?

If history has taught us one thing, it’s the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style wouldn’t appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying. Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance than break their bones in break-dancing. Read more »

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